Meet Monika, a mom and entrepreneur. After more than 20 years building a stable life in the Netherlands, she realized that while everything looked perfect on paper, her soul was craving more—more space, more freedom, more life.
In August 2025, Monika and her 13-year-old daughter, Mila, took a bold leap and made Bali their home. Since then, they’ve been embracing a slower pace, building a supportive community in Mas near Ubud, and finding joy, and growth, in everyday island life.
In this Q&A, Monika shares their journey: the choices behind their move, finding the right school, navigating life as a family in Bali, and the lessons she’s learned along the way. Her story is a reminder that relocating isn’t just about a change of scenery, it’s about creating a life that truly fits.
Where are you originally from, and what’s your background, life before your Bali adventure?
I’m Monika, 40 years old, I’m a single mom of 13-year-old Mila, an entrepreneur, and now I can put on my CV a professional life-redesigner.
Originally from Poland, I spent over 20 years building a stable life in the Netherlands. I never truly felt at home in either place. On paper, everything was “perfect”: work, routine, safety. In reality? My soul was bored out of its mind. I knew there had to be more.
More space, more warmth, more life. Deep down, I always knew the Netherlands wasn’t my final destination. I knew I would one day live on an island with palm trees in my garden. So instead of waiting for “someday,” I chose now, and Bali became our new home.
When did you move to Bali, and how long do you plan to stay?
We moved to Bali in August 2025, and the plan is permanent. This isn’t a gap year or a long holiday. It’s our home now.
I wanted a different pace of life, more freedom, and a healthier environment for both my daughter and me. Education played a big role: I wanted Mila to have space for critical thinking, creativity, and learning beyond rigid systems.
On top of that, with everything happening in Europe, we simply feel safer here. Our mental comfort is bigger. Life feels lighter. Bali represented freedom, nature, community, and space: to breathe, to grow, and to show my daughter that life doesn’t have to follow one script.
Of course, we miss deeply our friends and family deeply. But distance has changed how we connect. Time together is more intentional, conversations are deeper, and moments actually count instead of blending into daily routine.
How did you come across Our Year in Bali, and what was your experience like working with Simone?
I found Our Year in Bali while researching a realistic, family-friendly way to relocate and not just the Instagram version.
Working with Simone felt grounded, honest, supportive, and human. No sugarcoating, no fake promises. Just real guidance from someone who actually knows what moving here truly looks like.
She has a huge amount of knowledge about Bali and everything you need to know when relocating, plus an impressive network of people and organizations. It felt less like a service and more like having someone truly guide you through the process.
Where do you live in Bali, and how would you describe the community?
We live in Mas, near Ubud: surrounded by rice fields, locals, and a calm rhythm of life. It’s not touristy chaos. It’s a community where neighbors greet you, and life flows at a human pace.
You decided to try and do some homeschooling before choosing a school. Please share your experiences and also talk about raising children in Bali.
Yes, I was thinking about homeschooling, but I didn’t. I decided to enrol Mila at Spark Bali.
What attracted me was the focus on creativity, critical thinking, and emotional development, not just memorising information. The school encourages curiosity and individuality, which fits perfectly with how I want Mila to grow and learn. So far, it’s been a very positive experience. Very supportive, open, and aligned with our values.
How does everyday life in Bali compare to home financially?
Life here is more affordable and richer at the same time. Things that felt like luxuries back home: help around the house, fresh food, wellness, flexibility, are normal here.
For me, it wasn’t about spending less; it’s about getting more life for your money.
I work fully online, running my business remotely. Bali forced me (in a good way) to redefine success: less hustle, more intention. Work fits around life now, not the other way around.
Back in the Netherlands, as a single mom and entrepreneur, I was highly independent. I did what I wanted, when I wanted. I drove everywhere, handled everything myself, and relied on no one.
Here in Bali, life humbled me in the best possible way. I still don’t drive. I’m still processing riding on the left side of the road and I had never ridden a scooter before in my life. I’m still practicing. That means that even for short distances, I sometimes need to ask for help or use services like Gojek or Grab. And surprisingly, this has been one of my biggest areas of personal growth. I’m learning to receive help when it’s offered and to ask for it without feeling weak. For someone who was used to doing everything alone, that shift has been huge. Bali isn’t just changing how I live. It’s changing how I relate to myself and others. And that kind of growth is priceless for me.
What does a typical day look like for you and the family in Bali?
Our days start slow: coffee, school drop-off, a bit of work. Afternoons might include swimming, learning, errands, or just enjoying being outside. Evenings are for good food, conversations, and sunsets that remind you to slow down.
What are some common misconceptions about Bali, and what would you say to set the record straight?
Bali isn’t just a holiday destination. Real life happens here: work, school, responsibilities. It’s not always easy, but if you come prepared and open-minded, it’s incredibly rewarding.
How have you immersed yourself and the family in the local culture?
Living in Bali has taught us patience, gratitude, and presence. Daily rituals, ceremonies, and the way Balinese people approach life constantly remind you that not everything has to be rushed and that community matters.
One of the biggest differences we feel compared to Europe is the sense of community. In Europe, there’s often a kind of anonymity; everyone lives close, yet separately. Here, that’s almost impossible. If you’re sick, the whole community knows within no time. People check in on you, ask how you’re feeling, and if you need anything. Sometimes they don’t even ask; they simply show up with hot soup or fruit.
Balinese people are incredibly attentive. They remember small things quickly, your favorite food, what you like or don’t like, and they’ll bring it to you on simple occasions, just because they thought of you. It’s warm, caring, and deeply human, and it makes you feel seen in a way that’s rare elsewhere.
What should other families think about before making the move?
Don’t rush. Do your research. Be honest about why you want to move. Bali won’t fix your life, but it will amplify it. And get support. Trying to figure everything out alone is unnecessary stress.
Moving to Bali wasn’t running away. It was choosing better. More intention, more presence and more life. It’s not perfect, but it’s deeply aligned and for us, that makes all the difference.
